Daily Dating Tips

Foods To Increase Libido

2011-09-09T17:31:00.000-07:00

Fenugreek gives a whole new meaning to "some like it hot." Before, we knew it as an herbthat spices up curries, but a new study found that it increases libido, as well. But we're notsuggesting you and your girlfriend consume handfuls of the stuff. So wecompiled a list of some more common foods that also do the trick. Here are 11foods that will provide the essential fuel to spark your sexual appetite and increaselibido. 1- Celery While celery may not be the first food that comes to mind whenyou're thinking sex, it can be a fantastic source food for sexual stimulation. This isbecause it contains androsterone, an odorless hormone released through male perspirationand turns women on. How to enjoy this libido food: Celery is besteaten raw. Wash and cut some, and munch away. 2- Raw oysters This is one of theclassic aphrodisiacs. Oysters are high in zinc, whichraises sperm and testosterone production. Oysters also contain dopamine, a hormone knownto increase libido. Also, the experience of shucking a raw oyster is erotic. Tryincorporating it into your foreplay -- feed her and have her feed you. The slippery tastesensation and the mere act of shucking should get you both in the mood. How to enjoy this libido food: Scrub the shells thoroughly to get any dirt or bacteriaoff. Pry them open and place them on a bed of ice, squeeze some fresh lemon onto them ifyou like, and then start shucking away. 3- Bananas Bananas contain the bromelain enzyme, whichis believed to increase libido and reverse impotence in men. Additionally, they are goodsources of potassium and B vitamins like riboflavin, which increase the body's overallenergy levels. How to enjoy this libido food: Place them on a dish invarious states of "undress" and have your lady slowly eat some for you. Then gobble yoursdown and get to work. 4-Avocado The Aztecs called the avocado tree "ahuacatl," or"testicle tree." While avocados can indeed look like that body part, they contain highlevels of folic acid, which helps metabolize proteins, thus giving you more energy. Theyalso contain vitamin B6 (a nutrient that increases male hormone production) and potassium(which helps regulate a woman's thyroid gland), two elements that help increase libido inboth men and women. How to enjoy this libido food: Cut one inhalf, scoop out the insides with your fingers, and then get your woman to lick it off. 5- Almonds (or nuts in general) Almonds are a prime source of essential fattyacids. These are vital as they provide the raw material for a man's healthy productionof hormones. Additionally, the smell of almonds is purported to arouse passion in females.Try lighting some almond-scented candles to encourage her mood and snack on some (but nottoo many) yourself to store up energy for your performance. How to enjoythis libido food: Eat them raw (with no added salt or sweetness). Or, crush some freshalmonds and sprinkle them on your salad to get the energy you need. Onto somefruit, eggs and other foods to increase libido...

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Father-Son Relationships

2011-09-09T05:01:00.000-07:00

At AskMen, we strive to beexperts on all topics of concern to men. But sometimes expertise is no substitute forexperience, which is when we turn to our readers. Do you have advice to help your fellowmen become better men? Do you have unique knowledge or perspective that we should sharewith our 15 million monthly readers? Send us an email at editorial@askmen.com, and we may do justthat.This week’s user submission is from Kirk Thurbide.As I approach fatherhood, I find myself spendingmore time thinking about and trying to understand my own father so I can better relate tomy child. I think this is quite normal. As men, we spend a lifetime trying to understandour fathers. We learn and continually relearn lessons from them throughout our lives. Myfather passed away when I was in my teen years, but I often wonder how I might relate tohim now, as an adult with my own family. Over the years, my opinions and views of myfather have changed greatly, and the revelations of why my father did certain things arebecoming more frequent and clear as I make my way.The Psychology Behind Father-Son RelationshipsIndeed, we do learn more about our fathers and how to relate to them as we getolder. Dr. D. Charles Williams has identified five predictable stages that can occur in the waythat sons related to their fathers throughout their lives with the acronymIDEAL. 1. Idolize: This refers to ourchildhood view of our fathers, when they seem invincible.2. Discord: This occurs during therebellious teen years, when we typically want to be nothing like our fathers.3. Evolving: Duringyoung adulthood, our difference or contempt turns into something more likecompetition.4. Acceptance:Occurs during our 30s and 40s when we let go of old hurts and acknowledgeour father’s positive traits. Friendship often begins to evolve in this stage.5. Legacy:In our 50s, we will recognize that we are a living product of our fathersinfluence. Of course,everyone’s experience is not the same and cannot be tied up into a neat formula.But I believe the search for understanding is something that is common to all sons,whether you grew up in a made-for-TV nuclear family or without yourfather in your life at all. You want to know about who you are, and part of that includes understanding who your father is. Fathers Are People TooThere is no simple way to relate to your father as an adult. The make-up of anyindividual is multi-faceted, and recognizing that our fathers are much more than theunilateral role we have known them in is a great way to start to relate. As adults, wegain a greater insight and understanding into our fathers, not just as fathers but asindividuals. This understanding of how your father became who he is can yield clarity, perspective and respect, so take time to get to know your father -- to really know him.Get him to tell you stories about his life. Ask questions that help you build a biggerpicture of the man.Want a more rewarding father-son relationship? Readon...

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Five First Date Questions To Ask

2011-09-08T16:31:00.000-07:00

Five First DateQuestions To Ask You’ve ordered dinner and wish the waiter would bringa side order of good conversation because an awkward silence has settledover the table. You’ve already meandered through common first-date banter (Do youhave siblings? Where do you like to hang out?) and now have hit a slump. Whatyou need is to shake the conversation up with some unique questions instead of the regularlackluster ones that get served on first dates. This way you’ll keep her intriguedwhile you get your hands on important information about her. Keep theconversation light but meaningful, and let it flow in a natural way. Often, a questionwill branch out into others, so here are five first date questions to have up yoursleeve.Are you going to try the snails with me?You’re both perusing the menu when she settles on a pasta dish. Sneakily, you askher if she’d be keen to try something different instead. This is more than justwanting her to enjoy what is, in your opinion, a delicacy; you’re being introducedto her sense of openness. Is she willing to try new things or does she insist that snailslook disgusting? Of course, if she has an allergy to the food you’re suggesting,that’s a totally different situation. Generally, though, asking her to try somethingnew with you will show you how she deals with it and if she’s flexible. Not tomention that if she’s an experimental gal it could pay off at a later stage.What would you do right now if you had a million bucks?You can ask her about her hobbies, or you could throw her this question and see how shecatches it. What she would do if she landed in big money overnight is probably somethingshe has let her imagination toy with before (as have most of us), so it will give you aglimpse into her interests and priorities, but also spontaneity levels. The benefit ofthis first date question is that it comes across as fun, thusputting her at ease while giving you some insight into what she’s all about.What’s the scariest thing you’ve ever done?Just how risky is this hot tamale? This subject not only makes for some interestinganecdotes, but it helps you gauge her adventurous side and what risk levels she iscomfortable with. Look into the future: If you start dating and invite her to go bungee jumping or mountainclimbing, will you be sharing that adrenaline or will she be sitting on the sidelinesbored? Explore her sense of adventure and see if your fun thresholds are on the samepage. Our five first date questions to ask continues after the jump...

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Dating Younger Women: Why It'll End Badly

2011-09-08T04:01:00.000-07:00

Arnaud Lagardere, a managing partner of a French mediaconglomerate, is one of the richest men in France. Like many men of his status, Lagarderehas a hot model girlfriend, Jade Foret, who happens to be 30 years his junior and at leasta few inches taller than he is. Sounds like one of the many advantages of being wealthyand powerful, right? Sure, but with the perks of a younger girlfriend go some very strangebacklashes. For instance, Lagardere and Foret recently posed for a somewhat provocativephotoshoot together for Le Soir, a Belgian weekly magazine, and apparentlyLagardere's business partners are none too impressed. But is that precisely what happenswhen when date women who are much younger than they are? Do men seemingly lose their mindstrying to keep up with a girl from a generation they clearly don't relate to?Dating a girl 10or 20 (or 60) years your junior is a recipe for trouble. Let’s examine the specificreasons why dating younger women will end badly.Because she’s not a fresh startOne of the mistakes older guys often make is assuming that older women have emotional hang-ups andyounger women don’t. Such men are enticed by the seeming innocence and purity of theyounger woman. They think that because she’s never had her heart broken shewon’t have intimacy issues. They think that because she’s years away fromturning 40 she won’t constantly remind him about her biological clock. These men arewrong. Every woman has baggage. Further, younger women are likely to haveissues that older women have outgrown. For example, because of their comparativeinexperience when it comes to relationships, younger women are more likely to be needy andinsecure.Because she’s in it for the wrong reasonsBefore you start entertaining the idea of dating younger women, ask yourself this:How come when you were 27 you couldn’t get a girl like the blonde bombshell who nowseems so interested in you? How is it that now, 10 or 20 years later, when you’reolder and probably worse looking, that you can score the hottest woman you’ve everdated? What’s different about you? Here’s a hint: When you wereyoung, you were poor. Now you’re not. Yes, it’s a bit crude, but there’ssome truth to it. Younger women are often attracted to the security that older men canprovide them. Maybe at first you won’t mind exchanging money for sex, but if youdevelop feelings for the girl you’ll become less and less comfortable with herinsincerity and her materialism. Don’t worry, we have more reasons whydating younger women will end badly…

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How To Know If She Likes You

2011-09-07T15:31:00.000-07:00

No matter what age you are, no matter what stage in life you’re at, the moment youfeel that you like a woman, you start terrorizing your friends with this question:“Does she likeme?” You rally all of them. You might go out in a group or call friends upindividually and ask each of them, “Can you let me know what you think -- does shelike me?” And you'll start going over some of the things she's done. You’restarving for theiropinions. Here's the issue -- the issue we all forget: The minute you walkaround wondering, “Does she like me?” you’re basically giving your poweraway to her, without even realizing it. Then, the next time you see her when you go out on a date, you'renot really yourself because you're so caught up with wondering if she likes you andwanting her to like you that you hold back who you really are. And in dating, isn't thatthe whole point? In order to get the ending right -- to finally find thatgreat woman you could spend eternity with, or at least happily ever after for two years --you need to find someone who likes you (and is dating you) for who you are instead ofliking you for who they think you are. You need to stop worrying about if shelikes you, and you need to flip the switch and the power. You need to think: Do youlike her? Is she somebody you can hang with? Is she somebody you can envision going onvacation with? Is she somebody you'd like to wake up with in the morning? Is she sexuallycompatible with you? Do you like the way she moves? Do you like the way she talks? Do youlike the way she takes care of herself? And most important, are you able to be 100 percentauthentic in front of her? Are you being yourself, or are you just being a version ofyourself in order to get her to like you? The minute I stopped worryingwhether a girl liked me and started being myself in every situation, I had an endlesssupply of women liking me. The funny thing is, I didn't like many of them. I found theywere actually spending time trying to get me to like them instead of just beingthemselves. So I've been where you are, and I've seen both sides of it. Andlet me tell you, if you flip the switch and start to do the things I advise above, you'renever going to call another friend to ask whether the girl you like likes you back. You'renever going to worry about whether she likes you. You're going to have complete control,complete power -- and you're going to attract the most incredible women. The eternalquestion “Does she like me?” won’t be a question anymore.

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Weekly Pickup Line

2011-09-07T03:01:00.000-07:00

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4 Tricks To Make Her Orgasm

2011-09-06T14:31:00.000-07:00

4 Tricks To Make Her OrgasmShe’s arching her back, moaning and groaning, and giving Meg Ryan a runfor her money. You’re impressed by your ability to make her squirm like that, butdeep down your thoughts race between: "What if she’s faking?" and"If not, how do I hit this magic button again?" If you’ve ever beenthere, or for that matter would like to find yourself in that enviable position, check outthese four tricks to make her orgasm.Put on musky cologne Smell is the strongest of the five senses when it comes tosexual functioning for two reasons: First, since anything musky mimics testosterone,it’ll kick her libido into highgear. Baby powder can have a similar effect by activating her “scent print,”which links babies to procreation. Second, because smell, sex and memory centers shareclose quarters in the brain, the scent of arousal leaves the most lasting impression. Thesecond she gets a whiff of your musky cologne, she’ll be transported back to thelast time she smelled it on your body. Warm up her feet Every guy knowsthat when a womanhits the sack she loves to wedge her cold feet between his legs to warm up. Warm feet domore to make a woman physically comfortable than just about anything else -- even more soif you want her completely naked, which is not likely to happen if she’s cold, evenwith the lights off. What most of you probably didn’t realize was the importance ofwarm feet in increasing the likelihood of her experiencing an orgasm. According to Dutchscientists from the University of Groningen, the odds are increased by 30%. Maybe leavingthe socks on isn’t such a bad idea after all. If you want to try something sexier, afoot massage with a warming gel can do wonders, especially if you concentrate on the padsof her toes and the webbing in between, which are linked to her nether zones according toreflexology charts. Moreover, lips, hands, feet, and genitals get the lion’s shareof brain space, where feet and genital centers are neighbors, making them share sexyinformation. Why else do you think women call shoe shopping “retail therapy”-- especially when they’re not getting any at home and feeling bummed out? So socksor stilettos, you choose, as long as they’re keeping her tootsies warm. For two more tricks to make her orgasm, read on…

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How To Land A One-Night Stand

2011-09-06T02:01:00.000-07:00

How To Land a One-Night StandMen love sex, especiallywhen there are no strings attached. And what really makes a player a capital-P Player ishis ability to secure sex within hours of meeting a woman. While most of my articles contain at least an element of that goal, I've decidedto give you a straightforward, step-by-step account of what you have to do to go fromcomplete stranger to knocking boots with a woman in the space of an evening. These tips may apply at a nightclub or a house party -- or anywhere bed-able babes can befound. Allow me to illustrate what I mean with one of my own adventures.A recent encounterI recently found myself at an art opening wine and cheese (a great place to meet women,incidentally: free wine, food, and mostly women who like to socialize), and as I wasmingling and discussing the art and all sorts of things with both women and men, I spotteda woman who looked ripe for what I, as The Player, often have in mind. Therewas a certain elegance to her tanned skin under her spaghetti strap dress -- but not somuch that she looked like a long-term project rather a possible one-night conquest. More apretty woman than a photogenic knockout, I could see she had a fun spirit about her as shelaughed and chatted with a couple of other ladies. Grabbing some food at atable beside her, I listened in on their conversation for 30 seconds, then joined in withan opinion opposite to the one she had just expressed to her friends, to get a littletension going. My target, Valerie, who looked about 30, and her two friends welcomed meinto their conversation, which continued amiably enough for about five minutes before Iexcused myself. That said...1- Spot your preyOpt for women who wear little clothing No, not just because you can betterinspect "the goods." When women ovulate, they often dress provocatively, as theysubconsciously want to attract potential mates -- the equivalent of animals being in heat.The animalistic element is quite present in the primordial one-night stand process. Use itto your advantage. Approach experienced women The older ladieswho seem fun-loving are generally more adventurous, and are therefore a good choice. Hit up women in all combinations With a group of women, don'tnecessarily approach the most attractive one. Instead, use game theory: opt for thesecond-most attractive to increase your chances of success, since she probably doesn't gethit on as much. This, in turn, might make the alpha female jealous, which could create abidding war that works to your advantage. You could always opt for the leastattractive woman to optimize your chances, since she probably rarely gets any attention atall when she goes out with her girlfriends. But if you're a real player, surely you'll besetting your sights higher than the ugly duckling. Note: If you plan onbuying your prey a drink, then you should buy one for all her friends as well. Move in on women who are alone If she's alone, on the other hand, youwon't face resistance from her friends. She's likely to want to talk to interestingfellows who can entertain her. Remember, even if your pick-up skillsare excellent, if you select the wrong woman who's in a bad mood and/or not into one-nightstands, then you have no chance. The possibility of having sex ultimately depends on thewoman. Back to the story...

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Weekly Pickup Line

2011-09-05T13:31:00.000-07:00

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Her Daddy Issues

2011-09-05T01:01:00.000-07:00

You’ve heard of the Oedipus complex, right? According to Freud, it is the theorythat every man secretly wants to kill his dad and have sex with his mom. (We know.That’s totally creepybehavior.) But perhaps you haven’t heard of the Electra complex. It’s apsychological term developed by Freud’s colleague Carl Jung. For Jung, the Electracomplex denotes a woman’s sexual attachment to her father and a correspondingcompetitive hostility toward her mother. It’s from Jung’s Electra complex thatwe’ve derived the modern concept of “daddy issues.” Thesedays, people say a woman has daddy issues when she appears to be seeking attention frommen in order to compensate for the attention she may not have received from her father.When we talk about her daddy issues, we’re generally talking about things likeaggressive flirtation, promiscuity, a tendency toward exhibitionism, and certain emotionalhang-ups. Whether her daddy issues are actually the result of herrelationship with her father or whether “daddy issues” is just the labelsociety has chosen to attach to this kind of behavior, it is a set of characteristics youmight encounter in a woman. Consequently, you need to know how to recognize her daddyissues and how to handle them.Sexual aggressivenessMost guys delight in the idea of sexually aggressivewomen. But if a woman is grinding up against you on a dance floor, initiating publicgroping and dragging you into her bedroom on the first date, it might be a sign of herdaddy issues. If you’re up for a one-nightstand, there’s probably nothing you need to do except enjoy the ride. But ifyou’re interested in a relationship with this girl, your strategy should be to takethings slow. If her sexy signals are overly aggressive, tell her you want to slow down andget to know her before doing the deed. Make plans for a future date instead of strippingeach other’s clothes off. Show her you’re interested in more than just sex andshe won’t feel quite as desperate to impress you with her sexual prowess.Excessive flirtingIt’s a stereotype that girls with daddy issues flirt a lot. Andmaybe it was even her flirting that got your attention in the first place. Onceshe’s your girlfriend, though, flirting with strange men is not going to fly. It’s important to recognize that not all women flirt because they’reinterested in the guy they’re talking to. Your girlfriend may be flirting becauseshe craves attention and enjoys the rush of developing sexual tension with a stranger. Thebest way to deal with this manifestation of her daddy issues is to confront her about it.Tell her you’re not OK with it. The extra attention from you will likely offset theattention she’s been seeking from random guys. More details on herdaddy issues…

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Power Over Women

2011-09-04T12:31:00.000-07:00

So now you've got lots of sex-and-children-wanting, fear-of-being-single,blinded-by-cucumbers-in-their-eyes women. They've practically wrapped up all the powerthey once had into a neat little package and put it on our plate, right between the stripsteak and the mashed potatoes. Men don't have to do very much to get theadvantage back. Over time we become more comfortable and confident with our place in life,but the pendulum is swinging in our favor regardless.Exhibit AHere's an example to illustrate this point. As women age, they developundesirable wrinkles; as we men age, some of us lose our hair. Both maladies have agreat many products to combat them (though anti-aging is several times larger than hair loss). Good so far,but here's the difference: Women rationalize men's shortcomings. That's why women say bald is sexy. They haveto believe it because they've lost power in the relationship. You won't ever hear men say,"Wrinkles are sexy," because they don't have to. Here, let me try it. I love wrinkles;they're sexy. No, I take that back.Another ExhibitA lot of women say they like guys with a little gut or guys who aren't in better shapethan they are. Why? Because they don't want to feel like they're fat or because they don'twant a guy who is vain. Not so fast -- hands where I can see 'em. That soundslike more rationalizing to me. What It MeansPicking up women is supposed to be tricky in our 20s. Embrace that, use it as a time tosucceed and fail in turn, because a few years down the line, women will be torn in allkinds of different directions that will make them behave irrationally and startlocking down guys they wouldn't have even maced a few years back. Prepare forthis. Embrace it. Take what's yours. Be a gentleman about it.

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Sex Addicts

2011-09-04T00:01:00.000-07:00

If you answered yes to these questions, you’re not alone. But "yes" answersdon’t necessarily mean you have a problem (in my view). There is much more toexplore. For those of you thinking this is just one test and there are betterinventories, what I’ve found is you can change the words and put different wrappingpaper on the gift, but it’s still the same message. Many sex-addition treatmentprograms focus on exploiting people’s fear of sex and their difficulty controllingtheir sexual impulses. Treatment aspects can range from encouraging sexual or masturbatory abstinence,suppressing sexual desire and behavior, feeling powerlessness against their sexualdesires, and facilitating victimizing. Addiction treatment for substance use is the modeland inspiration for sex addition treatment, but can we really apply the same treatmentmodalities to something like sex, which is a basic need and desire for humans? Iunderstand abstinence from use is important for many people in substance recovery, butcan we use similar models for sexual expression? I wonder what’s next in theevolution of addiction models: love addiction, food addiction, Internet addiction, andheaven forbid, Facebook addiction? Welcome to the addicts club. We take cash, check,credit card, and Paypal. I’ll never forget the first client (no names,as it's still confidential) who was a graduate of sexual-addiction treatment. This person suppressed any sexual involvement, didn’t date and refused to masturbate.He followed his sex-addiction program perfectly and was one of the most guilt-ridden andunhappy persons to ever walk into my office. Never have I felt more empathy for a clientthan the pain described when he masturbated and broke his masturbatory abstinence. Ten months later, he terminated treatment as a happy, regularly masturbating guy (2-3times per week) who was able to manage his sexual guilt and was dating a woman. He hadall the answers inside of him and just needed a safe place to recreate his sexualidentity and expression. There are other ways besides traditional sex-addictiontreatment. As biased as I’m being, it’s to demonstrate something.We need to question the hot-topic treatments of today because tomorrow we may look backand wonder what we were thinking. To be fair, some sex-addiction models and treatmenttechniques work for some people. Some people respond to 12-step sexaholics-anonymoustreatment or sex-addiction therapy. Other sex-addiction programs modify their models to add or remove certain questionable techniques to improve their treatment. But what aboutthe masses of people sex-addiction treatment doesn’t work for? My point is thereare other avenues to take should one decide their sexual expression is problematic andaddiction treatment isn’t their cup of tea. The sexual-compulsivity model, whichuses a sex-positive lens to view out-of-control sexual behaviors or compulsive sexualbehaviors, has shown with research to be effective when using cognitive-behavioraltherapy and/or pharmacological treatments (medications) that may help individuals withobsessive-compulsive-like sexual expression. Basically, the model views sex as anintegrated part of the human experience and acknowledges that a person is a sexual beingwhile working on the problem. Do you think if we had early comprehensivesexual education in America and gained more knowledge about relationships, sexuality andthe tools and skills to enjoy them, we as a society might be better equipped to mangeour sexual lives? Just food for thought.(Ah, I went nuts and overwrote. Ithink I drank too much coffee beforehand. Coffee addiction? Start up a coffee-addictionclinic? Nah, Starbucks would crush me.)Part 2: Why do rich and powerful men cheat?All right, I went a little overboard on the last question, so lets lighten the mood. Whydo these men of power and fame cheat? That’s the million-dollar question. Everyonehas their opinion as to why the countless politicians, movie stars and people in powerpositions cheat. Are they sex addicts? Narcissists? Suffering from a personality disorder?Just plain careless? What you’ll find is each person does it for his own reasons,and everyone has different motives or roots for infidelity. Cheating does not equatewith sex addiction. Depending on the study, approximately 20-50% of people reportedcheating, and it’s foolish to think we live in a society where the majority ofpeople are sex addicts. In addition, studies have shown that people’spersonality-disorder traits impact their interpersonal relationships. That could explainsome of the personality/narcissistic-based cheating. But can’t people cheat thesedays because they’re simply cocky, a liar or insecure? How did they cheat in the olddays without all these postmodern terms, diagnoses and theories?Dr. Chavesexplains more about sex addicts and cheating, next...

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How To Celebrate Your Anniversary

2011-09-03T11:31:00.000-07:00

AnthonyWeiner and Huma Abedin's anniversary was on Sunday, and to celebrate, they flew to Miamiand had a romantic dinner at hip steakhouse Prime One Twelve. We imagine theatmosphere was somewhat strained, but still, it should teach you a lesson about how tocelebrate your anniversary. Does your woman complain that you nevercelebrate yours properly? Does she expect you to pull out the red carpet every time thatday comes around? A woman often looks to anniversaries to commemorate and appreciate yourtime together, so the least you can do is try to get on board. The mostimportant thing you need to know is that not all anniversaries are created equal. Indeed,different anniversaries call for different types of celebrations. But you don't have toplan for weeks to have a great celebration; you just have to do two things: Remember thedate (yes, mark it in your calendar) and heed my advice for some fabulous tips on planningthat perfect night.1- The three-month anniversaryWhat it means: For most couples, the three-month mark is the time to realize thatthey're headed for a committed relationship. So, you can approach this celebration as youropportunity to mutually acknowledge your commitment to each other. What youshould do: You can opt for the traditional meal out. Pick a snazzy place and getyourself looking sharp. Remember: Play this celebration as a toast to the future ratherthan one to the past. Or as an alternative to the regular dinner, consider planning a funevent. Take her to a comedy show or a concert that she'll like; this way, you can spendtime together without too much seriousness. (Note: Three months is the earliest you shouldcelebrate. Celebrate any earlier and you may come off as a little overeager.)2- The one-year anniversaryWhat it means: The one-year mark signifies that you've overcome the beginningstages of a relationship and you still want to be together beyond that. From herperspective, she'll see the day as a time to remember all your "firsts" together (firstdate, first kiss, etc.). So, you actually managed to keep her around for a fewyears. You've got to show your appreciation somehow...

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STD Symptoms And Treatments

2011-09-02T23:01:00.000-07:00

Scientists have released evidence of a new gonorrhea "superbug" -- oneresistant to all forms of antibiotics that are currently available for treatment. Althoughmany observers from the scientific community have called this an "alarming" development,few are surprised. Gonorrhea is one of the world's most common STDs, and it has shown anotable tendency to mutate in order to survive antibiotic treatment. Althoughgonorrhea is not fatal -- yet -- it can cause serious health complications if leftuntreated, and can leave women unable to bear children. This news only servesto reinforce the importance of knowing how to identify STDs when you suspect you have one,and perhaps more importantly, the importance of having safe sex. The topic of sexually transmitteddiseases (STD) is an unpleasant one. Alsoknown as sexually transmitted infections (STI) and venereal diseases (after Venus, theRoman goddess of love), the reported cases of STDs have been at epidemic numbers foryears. Despite having become more controlled in North America, AIDS is stilla terrifying prospect, and it's only one of many STDs out there. The major publicitysurrounding AIDS has left us slightly more ignorant about other STDs, which may not bedeadly but do pose wider threats. The major problem with any STD is its sneaky capabilityto go unnoticed. The symptoms can range from chancre sores, to painful urination anddischarge, to flu-like aches and pains. Many men and women carry STD bacterium or virusesfor years without visible symptoms, and unknowingly pass them on to their sexualpartners. Here is an overview of STD symptoms and treatments so that you're alittle more well-informed on how to protect yourself and your partner.std breakdownThere are two types of sexually transmitted infections: bacterial and viral. The biggestdifference between the two is that infections of a bacterial nature respond to antibiotictreatments. Viral infections do not have cures. Here is a breakdown of two ofthe most common STDs, their symptoms, and their respective treatments.Bacterial STDChlamydia Chlamydia iscontracted through oral, vaginal or anal contact or by touching your eyes after touchingthe genitals of an infected partner. Symptoms in men and women:Painful urination, penile/vaginal discharge or sore throat from oral contact.GonorrheaGonorrhea is a bacterial STD that presents differingsymptoms in men and women. Symptoms in men and women: Menoften experience pain while urinating and penile discharge, while a full half of all womenexperience no symptoms at all. Untreated gonorrhea in both men and women can lead topelvic inflammatory disease. Women run the risk of compromising their fertility. Viral STD AIDS An acronym foracquired immune deficiency syndrome, AIDS is an outbreak of symptoms and infections thatresult from the damage done to the immune system by the human immunodeficiency virus(HIV). AIDS may initially be asymptomatic or thepatient may experience flu-like symptoms,which may disappear for many years before the development of full-blown AIDS. AIDS is symptomized by fever, weight loss, fatigue, diarrhea, andopportunistic infections such as rare forms of cancer (Kaposi's sarcoma) and pneumonia(PCP). Treatment consists of a combination of antiviral drugs, proteaseinhibitors and other drugs. Everyone who has ever been -- or will ever be --sexually active is at risk. Abstinence is the only true form of protection against theseinfections. Thought condoms were the only form of STD prevention? Thinkagain...

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7 Women You Can Never Date

2011-09-02T10:31:00.000-07:00

When Sgt. Scott Moore, a Marine stationed in Afghanistan, got word that Mila Kunis hadaccepted his video invitation to the Marine Corps Ball this coming November, he wasprobably pretty excited. But now, after the media mayhem has reached full volume, wordhas emerged that Kunis will be shooting two films in November and would likely not beable to make it. Though herrep denies that she's bailing, we're also not entirely surprised. A woman like Kunismust be nearly impossible to date, given her hectic schedule. She may be a sweetheart, butwe're adding over-scheduled women to this list of seven women you can never date. Prove uswrong, Mila!We should add before we get started that generally, the reason toavoid these ladies has nothing to do with the woman herself, but it has everything to dowith her context in your life.1- Your best friend's sisterThe woman you know the best will often appeal to you the most. But if she is your bestfriend's sister, getting lucky can mean two months of fun followed by the need to move toanother part of the city. She makes the “7 women you can never date” listbecause as soon as sis becomes sweetheart, you'll be walking on eggshells with your buddy.Gone are the days of complaining to your friend about yourwomen troubles because the conflict of interest ruins the good times, and the first timeyou make a mess of things, he will likely want to beat your ass. 2- Your secretaryThere are plenty of reasons to keep your mitts off the help. It can get you into allkinds of trouble -- legal and otherwise -- should the relationship go south. But even ifthe fling goes well, you have problems. You'll soon be tempted to push the limits of whatyou can get away with at work, perhaps in the janitor's closet. Love at theoffice is an enormous distraction from your work, especially if you are in charge ofher. Others are always watching what you are doing. Worst of all, once the relationshipends, she will enjoy leverage over you, and may use it simply by gossiping about whathappened in the aforementioned closet.3- The ex-girlfriendEx-girlfriends are one of the 7 women you can never date. Yet, the ex-girlfriend becomesincreasingly seductive as loneliness sets in. After several years of eating the only threemeals you know how to prepare, you can easily get blown away when she follows up chickenparmesan one night with chicken marsala the next. She might clean your apartment one daywhile you were getting loaded at happy hour, and you'llwant her there permanently. The loneliness will make you forget the reason the two of youbroke up in the first place, but should you jump back into the relationship, those reasonswill resurface in no time. 4- The hot trailer girlHave you seen Maury Povich? Let that show be a warning to you if you are smittenby the hooker with a heart of gold. It's fool's gold -- the hot trailer girl is definitelyone of the 7 girls you can never date. The scenario goes something like this: You were inthe club enjoying the company of a young woman whose breasts were rubbing against you liketwo sea lions on a beach, and then you got confused. Enjoy the one-nighter, but the nexttime you see her at bar time, you would be wise to end up at Denny's eating a Grand Slambreakfast. Find out who the final 3 are of the 7 women you can neverdate…

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Pregnancy Body Changes

2011-09-01T22:01:00.000-07:00

France's First Lady Carla Brunijust announced that she's expecting her first child with husband, French President NicolasSarkozy. Though the former supermodel looks amazing for age 43, her pregnancy will nodoubt takes its toll on her sexy physique. Although she already has a son who's nearly 10years old from a past relationship, having a baby in her 40s might make the changes to herbody during pregnancy all the more gruesome. But before we go there, we willsay that there are few things more beautiful than a pregnant woman... from a distance.Once you get closer, you tend to notice most expectant mothers are covered with bristlyhairs, blotchy patches and a multitude of skin tags. As wondrous and miraculous as pregnancy may be,it also ushers in changes so intense they make puberty look like a cakewalk. Come along aswe examine the many terrifying ways your wife’s body will change during herpregnancy. She’ll turn into a gasbagYou know the way you feel after eating five pounds of bratwurst? Your wife will likelyfeel the same way during the duration of her pregnancy as she combats excessive bloatingand rising gas levels. The average person passes gas 14 to 23 times a day, but pregnantwomen often double that odiferous output thanks to higher-than-usual levels ofprogesterone. This hormone relaxes smooth muscle tissue in the gastrointestinal tract,thereby making your wife sound -- and smell -- like she’s just returned from achili-eating contest. Complicating matters further is the fact that a woman’sgrowing uterus crowds her abdominal cavity, slowing digestion and causing painfulbloating.She’ll droolIt’s every man’s dream to have women drooling all over him, and in pregnancy,that’s precisely what happens. Many pregnant women suffer from ptyalism, a hormonalcondition that leads to excessive saliva production. Ptyalism occurs most often during thefirst trimester, but it does affect some women during the full duration of theirpregnancy, making their saliva almost as hard to swallow as your story about where youwere until 3:00 am.She’ll gain weightIt’s perfectly natural for a woman to gain weightduring pregnancy, but some men aren’t adequately prepared for the sheer number ofpounds their spouse packs on. According to the latest data from the Institute of Medicine,the average healthy woman should gain between 25 to 35 pounds during her pregnancy.Approximately seven of those pounds should be the baby itself, with the rest of the weightdivided among the placenta, the amniotic fluid, the muscle layer of the uterus, additionalfluid and blood, and the 57 pints of Chunky Monkey she ate during her last trimester.She’ll experience hemorrhoidsPregnancy can be challenging at the best of times, but for many women, it’sliterally a pain in the ass. That’s because a woman’s growing uterus putspressure on her pelvic veins, thereby slowing the return of blood from the lower half ofher body and increasing the pressure on the veins beneath her uterus. This causes theveins to become more dilated and can result in painful hemorrhoids and constipation. Thisproblem is further complicated by the pressure exerted on a woman’s rectum from hergrowing baby. Add it all up, and it’s easy to see why so many women have difficultygetting comfortable during the later stages of their pregnancy.She’ll develop hobbit feetYou know what they say about men with big feet? Of course you do. You’ve beensaying it ever since you noticed you had the largest feet among all your friends. But doyou know what they say about women with big feet? They’re probably pregnant.That’s because pregnant women suffer from edema, an abnormal accumulation of fluidbeneath the skin. This condition can cause swelling of the hands and face, but it’sespecially evident in a pregnant woman’s feet and ankles since her rapidly growinguterus puts pressure on her pelvic veins causing blood to pool in her lower extremities.Edema generally occurs during the third trimester and is at its worst in warm weather andat the end of the day. The swelling usually disappears after childbirth,but some women find that their feet never return to their original size.Moreways your wife's pregnancy body changes next...

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How To Avoid Awkward Moments After Sex

2011-09-01T09:31:00.000-07:00

Thereyou are lying in bed. And there she is lying next to you. You just finished having sexwith a girl you’ve been dating (or you’ve just met), and your mind is fillingwith these questions: Did she come? Did she enjoy it? Was I good? Did I holdout long enough? Does she want to do this again? Does she expect me to cuddle her? Should Iget up? Should I go to the bathroom? Should I leave? Or, if she's atyour place, does she want to leave?When you first start having sex with a newwoman, you really want to avoid awkward moments after sex because, well, it's awkward.There's no ifs, ands or buts about it. You just don't know this person very well. Maybeyou’ve known her for a day, a week or a month.How well do you know her?But time doesn't make any difference because when you start having sex with somebody,it's going to be awkward. You don't even know each other. Even if you’re experiencedwith other people, you don't really know what to do, you don't know what she likes and youcertainly don't know if she was satisfied. You can’t pick up on all the intimatesignals yet. Now, the worst thing to do after sex is to look at a woman whenit’s over and ask, “Did you come?” That makes her feel like you're notin tune with her at all, and she wants to be in tune with you not only sexually but alsoemotionally and mentally. Another don't is to apologize for your performance. I knowa lot of guys will do that. When you apologize, all it does is show her that you're goingahead and assuming that your performance was bad and that she was not satisfied. And itwill also tell her that you're not very confident sexually. Avoid those awkward momentsFirst off, figure out ahead of time what this woman means to you. If it's the first timeyou're having sex with someone who you actually like and may want to be in a relationshipwith, you need to relax and realize that no matter what it's like the first time, it'sonly going to get better from there on out. This is because sex only gets better withtime, experience and knowledge of your partner. Also realize that if this is a woman youlike and you think you're headed in the direction of a relationship, you must have an openline of communication about sex, and not just right after that one session. Youcan do it on the next date -- even the next day. Turn to her and say, “Last nightwas great with you. Is there anything that you'd like me to do? What do you really like?What do you really enjoy?” Don't bring it up directly after sex,because her head will be spinning with thoughts just like yours. But do it the very nextday so you both have some time to process and learn more about each other. And it may takesome time depending on how open she is. But if you lead and you are open, she will say:“Last night was great the way you moved,” or “Last night was great theway you went down on me. Can you do that again?” The point is for you tostart to open lines of communication so that you can really learn from her sexually andshow her you are not ashamed of having sex with her. This is how you'll avoid thoseawkward moments after sex. Communication is the absolute key to a good sex life. More on how to avoid awkward moments after sex next...

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What Do Women Consider Good Sex?

2011-08-31T21:01:00.000-07:00

As a sex therapist and founder of GoodinBed.com as well as the author of numerous bookson the subject of pleasuring, such as She Comes First, I guess you could say Ihave one thing on my mind. Sex is pretty much all I think about and talk about all day(and if I’m lucky, I also get to do it with my wife). Over the years, I’velearned a thing or two about how to pleasure a woman, so without further ado, here are my10 “best practices” for being truly good in bed.1- Think like a “knob,” not a “switch.”When comparing male and female sexuality, there’s no shortage of adages: “Menare like light switches -- just flip them on, and they’re ready to go. Women arelike knobs -- you can turn them up and down.” Or as Dr. Emily Nagoski writes in theGood in Bed Guide to Female Orgasms, “Men are like driving standardtransmission -- if you move through the gears in the right order, you will get where youwant to go. Women are like baking a soufflé -- the outcome depends on theingredients and the chef, sure, but it also depends on the reliability of the oven,the altitude, the humidity of the day… more variables, more variability.” Inshort, think of foreplay as a 24-hour experience that happens both in and out of thebedroom. Sex is all about context. And while it may take very little to rev your engine,remember that she probably needs to simmer.2- When you’re getting it on, make sure she’s completely relaxed andcomfortable.Researchers in the Netherlands have found that the key to getting a woman turned on andto the heights of orgasmicbliss is a deep sense of relaxation and a lack of anxiety. Brain scans showed that theparts of women’s brains responsible for processing fear, anxiety and emotion sloweddown the more aroused they became, producing a trancelike state at orgasm. Men showed farless change in these regions. “What this means is that deactivation, letting go ofall fear and anxiety, might be the most important thing, even necessary, to have anorgasm,” says the study’s lead researcher, Dr. Gert Holstege.3- Take the time to figure out what works.Every woman is different, and most women don’t even orgasm the first couple oftimes they’re with a guy. A woman has to feel comfortable, and a guy has to figureout what makes her tick sexually. Some women love wet, sloppy kisses; other womenfind saliva a total turnoff. Some women love lots of breast stimulation; other womencan’t stand it at all. Some women love to be on top in bed; others love missionarystyle. Some women respond to intense clitoral stimulation; others require very little.Some women have an innate capacity to experience multiple orgasms; others are more likeguys -- they roll over, and they’re ready to go to sleep. Figure out a sex scriptthat works, and stick to it. Sure, familiarity can breed boredom, but it can also yieldconsistent orgasms.4- Once you know what works, wrap it in something fresh: fantasy.A healthy fantasylife is one of the keys to a great sex life -- even when your partner might not alwaysplay the leading role. Most people find that they are most sexually satisfied when theyare intimate with one person with whom they feel completely comfortable. Along with thisintimacy comes the freedom to let go and explore, including fantasizing about otherpeople, places and situations. One study on sexual fantasy by noted expert Dr. HaroldLeitenberg found that sexual fantasies occur most often in people with the highest sexualsatisfaction and the healthiest sex lives. If you need some ideas, check out our Goodin Bed Guide to 52 Weeks of Amazing Sex, in which we offer a different sexy scenariofor every week of the year.5- Play to your strengths.Very few guys make love like porn stars, nor should we. We live in the real world, and weall have sexual strengths and weaknesses. For example, I suffered from premature ejaculationfor years and compensated with oral sex. Some men suffer from erectile disorder on aregular basis, and some guys have a smaller-than-average penis. Develop “sexscripts” -- paths to pleasure -- that play to your strengths. And be willing tocommunicate. As Dr. Madeleine Castellanos writes in her guide to Male SexualIssues, “Wouldn’t it be great if penises could talk -- honestly andclearly -- about their feelings, especially when it comes to issues in the bedroom?”Most women don’t know how to “speak penis,” so give them a clue.

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The Six Sixes

2011-08-31T08:31:00.000-07:00

You know how men use a scale from 1-10 to determine a woman’s attractiveness? A 10is a smoking-hot babe a la Rosie Huntington-Whiteley, and a 1 is something that crawledout of a murky Louisiana swamp. Well, women have their scale too, and it’s calledthe Six Sixes. But unlike men's method, which judges women based solely on theirappearance, the Six Sixes evaluates men on their bodies, their income and their abilityto…perform. In other words, women have come up with a system of our own, created to weedout the average Joes from the Brad Pitts. Shallow? Perhaps, but don’t thinkshe’s not judging you. Unless she’s a golddigger and solely out for the cash, most gorgeous, independent women are going for thegold: the crème de la crème of men. Put plainly, we're looking to score asmany sixes as we can. The more sixes a girl can score, the better. A ten-incher or aseven-figure salary can make up for a lack in the other departments, but if you’remajorly missing one of the below, you might want to start working on filling in the gaps.Read on for a breakdown of the Six Sixes.A six-figure salaryThese days a six-figure salary isn’t much, but it’s sure as hell better thana five-figure salary.Five figures is fine for your average Joe, but to many ambitious women, five figuresscreams middle class. A successful woman is searching for someone who can treat her to thefiner things in life: last-minute weekends in Paris, vacations in Bali and expensivedinners. But it’s not just about the material things. No matter how equal womenbecome to men, when it’s all said and done, money equals power and masculinity. Aman who earns a lot of money can more easily take care of his family. And to a lot of us,that is way sexy.At least six feet tallIt almost goes without saying that taller men are more attractive to women. Six feet is agood starting point; it’s sort of like how guys think of a 36C cup size. Heightsuggests safety and security. We like to feel small and protected in the arms of our guy.A man who’s two inches taller than us is not likely to make us feel sexy or takencare of. More likely we'll feel like we're hanging out with a friend -- and that isnot going to get us hot and bothered.

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Friends With Benefits

2011-08-30T20:01:00.000-07:00

What not to doDon’t come across like a desperate hornymale -- there are enough of them in the world. She wants someone who knows what he wants,is sure of himself and knows his way around the femalebody. Having a nice personality is very important too, especially if you are going tofrequently wake up next to each other. You can’t kick her out beforebreakfast. It has to be clear that you have a reasonable grasp of sexual and social etiquetteand are going to treat her like an equal, not like a piece of meat. You also have toimpress her just like you would any other woman, but you have to impress her in differentways, and on a whole, a lot less than normal. You don’t need to keeprepeating yourself, and don’t complain about how horny you are -- it comes across ascrass. Crass men are renowned as being the ones who aren’t that good in bed, anddon’t know how to treat a woman. Just because she isn’t your girlfrienddoesn’t mean she doesn’t deserve your respect. Don’t treat afriend-with-benefits relationship as a cheap commodity, but enjoy and cherish it for whatit is -- a supremely excellent situation that you should attempt to keep as long asit’s appropriate. Another no-no is sleeping with someone who has toldyou that they are looking for Mr Right. You are not him, so don’t use her. It willbe so much more fun with someone who is on your wavelength. If you sense it wouldn’twork out to be mutually agreeable, don’t do it. There are plenty more fish in thesea and all that.The pitfallsThere are some obvious potential complications to having a friend with benefits. Thefirst is that one of you will start crushing, and one of you won’t. The inclusion ofserious romanticfeelings past the general affection and attraction you will both feel for each otheris a problematic and regular occurrence. And it isn’t always the soppy femalescrashing head over heels either; guys are just as bad when it suits you. It is easy enoughto do and, since we are all human and designed to connect with our lovers on many levels,it can get complicated quickly. The other major problem is the crossing ofboundaries. You don’t want her calling you at lunchtime. You don’t want aninvite to her mother’s 50th birthday bash. You don’t want to go to the newrestaurant downtown. You do, however, want to call her at 1 a.m. if you are in theneighborhood and you want her to do the same. You do want her to spend a Friday night inbed with you, if she hasn’t received a better offer. Because most of these rules areimplied, if she oversteps the mark, you need to firmly but kindly set her straight, andhopefully she will do the same for you. It takes a decent pair of people to make thiswork. Other considerations are your friends. Will they accept this? Will theyknow about it? Is there anyone who will have a problem with it? You don’t needanyone’s permission obviously, but it’s good to be thoughtful of the peoplearound you and how your behavior affects them.Potential problemsKeeping you and your friend with benefits safe is important. If you are both free tosleep with whomever you choose, it is important to protect yourselves.Do you want the mother of your firstborn to be with your friend with benefits? STD’saren’t pleasant either, so keep them to yourself please. It would also be helpfulnot to sleep with anyone she knows -- despite loosely applied “rules,” youstill need to have some standards of human decency. Even if she presumes you are sleepingwith other women, she doesn’t want to hear about it.bouncing buddiesHuman relationships are frequently complicated, so to find a waterfall in the desert iswonderful and something that, if it goes well, you will remember with great fondness. Youcan have an immensely satisfying sexual relationship and friendship, with lots ofaffection, good sex and a laugh. It doesn’t have to be with an ”easy”woman, and you don’t have to act like gods gift or a ”player” -- justact like a person. Be yourself and enjoy not having to act like an ass to tryto score a girlfriend. Fortunately, she doesn’t have to worry if you would make agood father or if you do housework. The friend-with-benefits relationship relieves youboth of the burden of finding the right partner and you can just enjoy each other as is.

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The Mile-High Club

2011-08-30T07:31:00.000-07:00

The Mile-High ClubDr. Chaves,While on a plane a few weeks ago, I had a really cool experience.My girlfriend jacked me off under a blanket, and nobody saw -- or so we thought.Everything about that was cool, but the flight attendantcame up to us and said someone reported we were being inappropriate and disruptive. Sheasked for our information. I’m scared something might happen. Can they sue us,arrest us or fine us?Thanks, Alex, FLWell, that’s avariation of the mile-high club. Ithink you need penetration to technically earn your wings, but I’ll give you anhonorable mention at the very least. I’m not a lawyer, so you’ll need tocontact one for official legal advice on flight laws and indecent exposure. That beingsaid, any public sexual activity or nudity can definitely get you in trouble with the law.Here’s my uneducated take on it. As long as your penis and thejacking occurred under the blanket and out of people’s sight, there’s no“hard” evidence. You had a rash that day and she was being a good girlfriendand scratching, right? I think if they were going to be a report or police involvement, itwould’ve happened immediately after your flight. Did the flight attendant mentionher information gathering was about anything sexual? It’s so late in the game thatif they were going to do something, it likely would’ve happened by now. I thinkyou’re in the clear. Or maybe they got your information to send you the dry-cleaningbill for that blanket. We all know it takes a double dry clean to get the baby batter out.Thumbs up for keeping your sex life interesting, but be careful about the public displaysof affection. Great story to tell the grandkids.Enlarged TesticlesDr. Chaves:For awhile now, the tubes on one of my testiclesis really enlarged and seems to be swollen. It has been like this for quite a while. Iwent to the doctor a long time ago for it, and all he did was feel the spot where the vasdeferens goes up into my pelvis. He said everything felt fine to him. It hasn't gone away,and I'm afraid it might have made me at least partially sterile and has reduced the amountof semen when I ejaculate.Just wanted to get your thoughts on this.Steve, MNNever mess withyour genitals. If something doesn’t feel right, get to a doctor asap. It’s notlike we have spares balls lying around as backups. I’m not sure how much time“quite a while” is or how long ago you visited a doctor, but there’snothing wrong with getting a second and third opinion. Let's be real here: You’reexperiencing pain in a pretty important and sensitive part of the body, and weshouldn’t take chances with our twig or berries, especially when there is pain.I’d take the cautious approach and see another doctor to get more intensive testingthan an external vas deferens fondling. You mention one symptom was reduced ejaculate.What strikes me is sperm production from the testes makes up so little of the total volumeof ejaculate (less than 1%). Most male ejaculate comes from the seminal vesicle andprostate glands, which makes me wonder if there is something else that needs to be lookedat besides the vas deferens swelling. It could be that the vas deferens is swelling as aresponse to another issue.Dr. Chaves answers more of your burning questionsnext...

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How To Break Up

2011-08-29T19:01:00.000-07:00

Reality star KristinCavallari just had her bachelorette party, but that didn't stop her fiance, NFLquarterback Jay Cutler, from callingoff the wedding, which got us thinking about the best way to break up. If thingsaren't working, then they just aren't working, and you're better off getting out of a badthing than carrying on with a bad relationship. But whether you've only dated for a fewmonths or you're about to walk down the aisle, breaking up is never easy. In all of myyears having been through so many different kinds of relationships, there’s onecardinal lesson I’ve learned about when they come to an end: Don’t be passiveabout breaking upwith her. Most guys will at some point come across a dead-endrelationship. He is ready for it to be over, ready to be free and single again, butshe is still content in the relationship and committed to keeping it going. When hislove for her fizzles out, a lot of guys will get into the following situation: He realizesthat he doesn’t love her the same way that she loves him, and so he does anything hepossibly can to get her to breakup with him. He spends more and more of his time with his friends or at workinstead of with her. His conversations with her become distant and emotionless. Hecomplains about her incessantly. He becomes argumentative and purposely instigatesfights with her. But this can be a slow and painful journey, because when a woman isin love, she tends to be stubborn and will do whatever she can to keepthe relationship alive. Trying to get her to break up with you is the chicken wayout and will just lead to complications. So learn how to break up with her. Ihave to admit, what I'm about to write is very personal to me because I've been down thisroad so many times before. You've met the girl you think is the perfectwoman. She's perfect in so many ways, yet there's just something missing. Maybe you're nothead-over-heels attracted to her, even though she's very beautiful. There's somethingthat's just not right; it doesn’t click in the way that you want it toclick. You can't figure it out, but you still think to yourself, "God she's great.She's fantastic. She treats me really well." And, after some time, you fall in love withher. But you're not head-over-heels in love. At the same time, however, she reallystarts to fall head-over-heels in love with you. She thinks you're so great that she wantsto build a life with you. On paper, everything may look great, but youknow that something is missing. It's almost like you can't put it into words orexplain it to anybody because whenever you do, everybody tells you how amazing this womanis for you. All of your single friends tell you that they’d love to meet somebodythat great. You agree with them but feel that there needs to be something more -- justsomething that feels more right. And so you're faced with one of thetoughest decisions you'll ever have to make. You have to figure out how to break up with awoman who's in love with you. You go through the angst, the guilt. She’s treated youso well and given you so much that you don't want to hurt her. She’s not goingto understand that you just need to be single again, and that you don't want to seeanybody. You care about her so much that you don't want to see her gethurt if you end the relationship. But the truth of the matter is that you're actually hurting her a lot more by staying in the relationship. As you stay in therelationship hoping that it will die out or hoping that she will eventually break up withyou, she is staying in the relationship hoping that you'll eventually turn the corner andlove her back.Here's how to break up with her gently...

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Why She Fakes It

2011-08-29T06:31:00.000-07:00

You think she’s happy. She sounds pleased. She’s making all the right noises.She’s moaning and breathing heavily. She came…you think. Or did she? She could very well be fakingit. To men who are able to come quickly and easily with a few thrusts, faking it seemsalien. Why pretend? Why not just come? Well, it’s not always that easy. The reasonswomen fake it are often as varied as women themselves. She wants to stroke his egoA lot of women simply don’t want to hear a man ask them why they didn’t come.The reality is, for many, it’s not that easy to orgasm, and they don’t need toevery time. This isn’t to say a woman isn’t enjoying sex. An orgasmisn’t a requisite for enjoyment. Sometimes she needs a mind-blowing orgasm, andother times, she just wants to be intimate. So rather than have a man keep pounding at heruntil she’s chafing, it’s just easier to pretend. She is too inhibited and fears losing controlIf she’s the type that has the perfect hair, the perfect job and the perfectwardrobe, she may well be afraid of losing control by allowing herself to orgasm. Dr. AvaCadell, sex therapist and author of the upcoming book Sexy Little Book of OralPleasure, says, “A lot of women don’t want to be seen as out of controlbecause they think they’ll look ugly or weak or vulnerable.” A woman who isafraid of looking messy, of squirting, having you see her “O” face, lookingfat, or otherwise doing something “embarrassing” may be unable to let goenough to let herself climax. Fear of pregnancy/STDsIf she's terrified of pregnancy or is simply worried about contracting a disease, she could beunable to focus on the task at hand during sex. A woman in this situation is going to needtime and a very safe environment if she’s going to feel relaxed enough to allowherself to let go and enjoy sex without fear. And, of course, make sure you always wrap itup! If she knows you take your sexual health seriously, she’ll feel morecomfortable.She doesn’t know how to get offUnlike men who have easy access to their penis, women aresometimes equally as dperplexed as men when it comes to the female body. Men grow up masturbating at ayoung age. But many women don’t learn about masturbation until well into their 20s,and even then it’s a complicated situation. Between the G-spot, theclitoris, vibrators, fingers, and everything else that’s going on, women oftendon’t even know how to make themselves reach orgasm, much less tell someone else howto do it. There are more reasons why she fakes it after the jump...

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Dinner Dating Beyond Food

2011-08-28T18:01:00.000-07:00

You have a date with a woman you have just met.amp;nbsp; You are determined to floor her in this date, but have trepidations about something going wrong.amp;nbsp; Here are few tips that will tell you all about dinner etiquette that will make your dinner date a success.amp;nbsp;amp;nbsp;amp;nbsp

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How To Find Your Man In Social Gatherings

2011-08-28T05:31:00.000-07:00

If you have been looking for love for quite a while now and havenamp;rsquo;t found one, the reason possibly is because you are looking at wrong places. Here are five nice places you may find your Mr. Perfect.At a coffee house: If you choose this as an option to find your guy, then you are someo

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Five Simple Routes To Win A Mans Heart

2011-08-27T17:01:00.000-07:00

You need not buy him an expensive car or the most expensive watch on the planet to make him smile.amp;nbsp;In fact expensive gifts may bother him about your financial independence.amp;nbsp;Men essentially like to protect their women and when you show this through gestures,amp;nbsp;you are sure to

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Details On Online Dating Helpful To Find Singles

2011-08-27T04:31:00.000-07:00

What is an online dating description? It is also called as a personal ad. Or it is called as online profiles. When you wish to join an online dating service you have to create your online profile. Most of the time people find it too difficult to make an online dating description. It is not that it i

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Four Ways To Get Over A Relationship And Find New Love

2011-08-26T16:01:00.000-07:00

Not all relationships have a happy ending.amp;nbsp; In the real world, people are made to go through a number of heart breaks before finding the ideal partner.amp;nbsp; Though this is a known fact, many people have problems in dealing with a break up.amp;nbsp; Here are some tips that help cope wi

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Relationship Problem Advice The First Date

2011-08-26T03:31:00.000-07:00

Ladies let me give you some friendly relationship problem advice.amp;nbsp;Men are not as complicated as you may think we are. We all know that first date can be a very awkward moment for both parties and both of you are wondering what to do, where to go, what to wear, and what do you talk about.am

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Tips To Find Out If You Are A Perfect Couple

2011-08-25T15:01:00.000-07:00

Every relationship has fights, small squabbles and some disagreement.amp;nbsp; These things do not mean that you are a bad couple and they are not signals of an impending break up.amp;nbsp; If you and your partner seem to be at bliss whenever you are together and cannot live without each other, no

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How To Write The Perfect Online Dating Profile

2011-08-25T02:31:00.000-07:00

If youamp;rsquo;re using online dating sites in your search for love then youamp;rsquo;ll know it all centers around the profile. A good profile can make the difference between a date a day and total dating failure. Comprising a handle, a tag line, a brief description of yourself and a photo, your

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Best Ways Of Asking A Girl Out

2011-08-24T14:01:00.000-07:00

Asking a girl out on a date is no easy feat, especially if she is above your league.amp;nbsp; Asking such a girl out brings nervousness, makes you falter and there is always a fear of getting rejected that may be stopping you from asking a girl out.amp;nbsp; You may have a lot of trepidations and

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Romantic Tips That Boost Love In A Long Distance

2011-08-24T01:31:00.000-07:00

amp;ldquo;Distance makes hearts grow fonderamp;rdquo; is a familiar adage.amp;nbsp; But in times when everything changes by the second, this adage sparks a doubt in the mind.amp;nbsp; Whether long distance makes hearts grow fonder or make memories feeble is subjective.amp;nbsp; However it canno

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Four Things You Should Not Do On A First Date

2011-08-23T13:01:00.000-07:00

You have successfully asked your dream girl out on a date and you are overwhelmed about taking her out.amp;nbsp;In an enthusiastic fervor, men often tend to make lavish plans and do things that can ruin a hard earned date.amp;nbsp;While most people know what to do on a date, they may not know what

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How To Find Chinese Partners Online?

2011-08-23T00:31:00.000-07:00

Chinese dating sites are one of the most popular and easy way to find Chinese singles online. Many of the Chinese women had found their partners with the help of these sites and are happy now. In this electronic era, we can easily find love as well as romance online through such sites. China dating

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How To Impress A Girl You Are Dating Online?

2011-08-22T12:01:00.000-07:00

When you are online looking for a date, there are literally millions out people there. Each one would have indulged in several online chats. Most people see online dating as a casual affair and quickly lose interest because love is something to do with emotions and feelings and the virtual world has

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5 Celebrity Couples You Cannot Help Notice

2011-08-21T23:31:00.000-07:00

The glamour quotient associated with a celebrities is high.amp;nbsp; Fans keep a close watch on every aspect of their life.amp;nbsp; What they where, what they eat, what they do, everything becomes a news. And when two such celebrities come together as a couple,amp;nbsp; you can imagine the amoun

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How To Find Your Ideal Soul Mate

2011-08-21T11:01:00.000-07:00

Finding your ideal soul mate can be tricky in the fast paced world we live in, with demands of employment, friends and family leaving little time for romance in our lives.amp;nbsp; Professional people are working longer hours than at any time in the last 30 years which means that meeting someone wi

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Aries Horoscope

2011-08-20T22:31:00.000-07:00

Aries Horoscope - First quarter: With the presence of Venus, there will be animation in your love life. If youamp;rsquo;re already married, the atmosphere is warm and sensual. But this aspect will concern mainly single Aries natives. Many Aries natives who are lonely will meet at this time someone

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Chat Up Your Senses

2011-08-20T10:01:00.000-07:00

Have you longed to go on a date? When was the last time you met someone you liked and wanted to spend some more time with that person? Are you always keeping your eyes open to spot someone who you can talk to? Do you always hang out at clubs and pubs, hoping to find someone like you?Well, the se

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How To Write Online Dating Profile

2011-08-19T21:31:00.000-07:00

Today most men are searching for how to create a good Online Dating Profile. Writing your dating profile is the most important thing to attract someone for a date or relationship. Stop searching now! We are here to help you in creating your online dating profile. Before you proceed with writing an o

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Relationships Add Dimensions To Ones Life

2011-08-19T09:01:00.000-07:00

How many of us have tried to invite someone out for a date, but didnamp;rsquo;t have the courage to speak up and take stand? Well, not difficult to answer that! Relationships and dating are something that really makes some go nervous. However, is dating really that difficult of a task? I donamp;rs

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Find Your Perfect Match Online

2011-08-18T20:31:00.000-07:00

Every single human being needs to love and to be loved.amp;nbsp; Dating is a process to find a friend, a long term partner. The one rule follows in traditional dating is a must in online dating, too; because traditional dating follows online dating. That rule is amp;ldquo;Be Yourselfamp;rdquo;.So

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How To Avoid International Online Dating Pitfalls

2011-08-18T08:01:00.000-07:00

It is not unusual for men in west to look for foreign women to realize their dream of an exotic romance through international online dating. But most men are apprehensive about these ladies they get involved with online as every one of us have heard about horror stories where honest men were taken f

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How To Overcome Self Sabotage And Acquire Dating Confidence

2011-08-17T19:31:00.000-07:00

Successful dating is all about confidence; confidence in how you look but more importantly confidence in who you are.amp;nbsp;You have to feel that you are amp;quot;worth itamp;quot; and that you have amp;quot;valueamp;quot;.amp;nbsp;If you do not have this sense of inner confidence or inner b

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The Many Benefits Of Webcam Chat In Chatrooms

2011-08-17T07:01:00.000-07:00

Manyamp;nbsp;chat rooms these days are into web-cam chatting. Even known social networking sites are trying to incorporate web-cam chat into their features. Now why do they like to go into these things?You know how people meet in real life, face-to-face, personally? Thereamp;rsquo;s that possi

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Join Free Friendship Dating Site To Overcome Your Loneliness

2011-08-16T18:31:00.000-07:00

In the modern world, where cut-throat competition to succeed and blind ambition and materialism has replaced all the gentler feelings and emotions, it is easy to feel lonely and lost. You spend almost every moment that you are awake trying to realize your ambition, trying to climb higher up the corp

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Seniors Online Dating, Mature Dating, Omg Where Has The Time Gone?

2011-08-16T06:01:00.000-07:00

Take a deep breath, donamp;rsquo;t panic, your officially a senior citizen, Damn where has all the time gone!How many of us, have had thoughts such as that recently?amp;nbsp; I bet I am not the only one.amp;nbsp; But I donamp;rsquo;t feel like a Senior, honestly I donamp;rsquo;t and I know

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Do You Need Some Advice About A Relationship Going Wrong?

2011-08-15T17:31:00.000-07:00

There are probably thousands of places online and off where you can go to get love life advice. Some of the sources will make a lot of sense and resonate with you. Others, not so much. Sometimes itamp;rsquo;s best to go to the one place you know that will give you the best advice, your own heart an

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Safe, Secure, Surprising Its The Joys Of Online Lesbian Dating

2011-08-15T05:01:00.000-07:00

It is a fact - if you are a woman looking for meaningful female companionship, your chances of finding a match are a thousand times more likely using online dating services than the more conventional bar crawl technique.There are many advantages to online dating, the main one being the sheer sco

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Are You Trying To Fix A Broken Relationship?

2011-08-14T16:31:00.000-07:00

When it comes to repairing a broken relationship, I have good news and I also have bad news, as well the good news is that no matter how badly damaged up the relationship is it can be repaired. This will only work, if both parties concerned are 100 committed to doing whatever it takes to make thing

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Secret Of A Successful Dating A Must Read

2011-08-14T04:01:00.000-07:00

Are you a lonely heart scouting around for new buddies? Are you completely clueless about how to gain new buddies in your life? Do all your attempts to strike up a friendship with new people always fall flat on their faces? Well, you are not alone, for there are many lonely hearts and single souls o

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Some Harsh Advice On Unrequited Love

2011-08-13T15:31:00.000-07:00

Iamp;rsquo;m not really sure that there is anything worse than loving someone who does not love you. It can be torture to have such strong emotions and not have them returned. No one can make it all go away, but there here is a little advice on unrequited love that may make things a little easier.

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First Date Five Great Places To Go On A First Date

2011-08-13T03:01:00.000-07:00

You have successfully asked your dream girl out on a date. You are determined to impress her by your charms.amp;nbsp; You have chosen what you want to wear and you are all set to impress your woman.amp;nbsp; But donamp;rsquo;t forget that even ambience is also a very important factor in making yo

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How To Find Your Perfect Partner

2011-08-12T14:31:00.000-07:00

Some people meet their future partner whilst at High School or at college; others meet amp;quot;the oneamp;quot; later in life.amp;nbsp; Generally speaking, if you meet your partner whilst quite young you will not have spent much time thinking about what really matters to you in a relationship.a

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Dating In London - Finding The Perfect Match

2011-08-12T02:01:00.000-07:00

Dating in London can be a bit stressful due to the heavy work load and commitments we have nowadays. Many ladies look for a man who they just want a bit of fun with, a man who will pamper, comfort, and who they can spend quality time with. In London, itamp;rsquo;s a very busy place where people

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Successful Internet Dating

2011-08-11T13:31:00.000-07:00

I decided to try internet dating to find the man of my dreams, the soul mate I knew was out there somewhere, for these reasons: One of my brothers had met his wife this way, and one of my other brothers had also met some nice people this way.amp;nbsp;Also some of my friends had enjoyed meeti

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What to Do with a Hot and Cold Dude?

2011-08-11T01:01:00.000-07:00

Dating Diva Q: I have been seeing this guy on and off for over a year now. The problem is, one minute he’ll be all gushy and adoring and warm, and then he’ll get “busy” with work and disappear on me for months at a time (though he texts me nonstop). This hot and cold [...]]]>

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How to Be A Sweet Girlfriend Without Being Mushy

2011-07-27T20:12:00.000-07:00

If you are anything like me, you'll have wondered how to be a sweet girlfriend. I am quite fiery and hot tempered therefore you wouldn't normally describe me as being sweet. However seemingly men like that and generally quite a bit.

Thus what do you wish to do? You are doing not would like to travel as so much as awaiting him at the front door when he comes home but it comes close. You wish to indicate your man some affection and I do not mean in the bedroom although we tend to can come to that later. Men like cuddles but only when acceptable, i.e. in personal. Public displays of affection tend to embarrass them.

Try taking the initiative and spice up your sex life however subtly is the key. For example, if you recognize he is having a arduous time at work, why not surprise him with a massage one evening. Light the candles, slip into something additional snug and warmth up the massage oil. The temperature is bound to rise.

Cook him his favorite meal and finish off afterwards letting him have the night off. In different words spoil him to distraction although once a while he could wonder if you are up to one thing.

Tease him when you are out in public. If you're at a restaurant, offer his hand a massage under the table and watch how he tries to hold his concentration on the conversation. Send him cheeky I owe you messages such as a promise to dress up in his favorite outfit or do one thing naughty to really flip him on.

Surprise him with a weekend away. Men love surprises too however usually are expected to be the ones to arrange them. This approach you're showing him you fully understand a way to be a sweet girlfriend.

Show consideration to his mates. If you reside together, invite them spherical one evening and leave them some beers, food and dips to enjoy with the game. Your man will be very impressed and his friends will be envious.

You will be reading this thinking that I even have taken things too so much however the very fact is that if you don't learn how to be a sweet girlfriend at least some of the time you are unlikely to progress to being a wife. After all your progression will probably be to the status of ex girlfriend. That after all is okay if you are doing wish to lose the person in your life but seeing as you asked the question I am guessing that's not the case. If you've got a history of not creating relationships work, perhaps now you have got discovered why.

Do yourself a favor and start practicing now before it is too late. It's a heap easier to attempt to impress your boyfriend than it's to impress your ex.

Easy Ways to Impress a Girl

2011-07-18T14:31:00.000-07:00

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Easy Ways to Know More About Your Nightclub Crush

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One Killer Way of Eliminating Rejection From Women

2011-07-17T13:31:00.000-07:00

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Get Laid Without Breaking the Bank

2011-07-17T01:01:00.000-07:00

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Top 5 Reasons Why a Man Will Not Call You Back

2011-07-16T12:31:00.000-07:00

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Girl Friend to Girlfriend With Dream Walking Seduction Ploy

2011-07-16T00:01:00.000-07:00

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Inspirational Interview on Finding True Love by Love Mentor Tamara Green

2011-07-15T11:31:00.000-07:00

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What is Love Mentoring®? FAQ

2011-07-14T23:01:00.000-07:00

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The Healing Power of Intention

2011-07-14T10:31:00.000-07:00

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Single People: Happy, Healthy and the Majority

2011-07-13T22:01:00.000-07:00

Single People: Happy, Healthy and the Majority By Kiri Blakeley, Guest Blogger and Courtesy of Forbes.com Everyone loves a big fat wedding. Witness the pomp and circumstance of Prince William and Kate Middleton’s wedding. Behold the frenzy surrounding the promises-to-be-equally as over-the-top union of newly engaged reality queen Kim Kardashian and NBA player Kris Humphries. [...]]]>

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The Unspoken Language of an Ex

2011-07-13T09:31:00.000-07:00

By Kimberly Dawn Neumann, Founder of Dating Diva Daily “Splendida, I need talk you. Pleaze. I need advice. I really mess up this time.” Oh honey, I think you’ve REALLY messed up before this but that’s beside point. Nonetheless, this is how the latest chapter started with “My Italian” – as I’d called him for [...]]]>

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Breaking Up, Blogging On

2011-07-12T21:01:00.000-07:00

A couple of my seriously talented writer friends have started this new site www.ModernLoveRejects.com to publish all the fantastic love-related essays that were… well…shot down like a date by the New York Times. Rebecca Agiewich gave us permission to run her essay here as well! Enjoy! Breaking Up, Blogging On By Rebecca Agiewich , Guest Blogger and author [...]]]>

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Wanna Play 52 Pickup?

2011-07-12T08:31:00.000-07:00

Remember the game 52 pickup? Where someone would toss all the cards on the floor? Well, we’ve got a version of that you’re going to want to play…and it might involve some picking up, laying down, and hopefully both players ahem…”coming” up winners. Enter the 52 Sex Positions deck, where instead of a King of Hearts, you might [...]]]>

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Emergency Last Minute Date Essentials

2011-07-11T20:01:00.000-07:00

Dating Diva Q: What products should a gal always have in her bag in case the man of her dreams calls and wants to meet for coffee in 5 minutes and she only has time to freshen up in a cab or on a street corner? Dating Div-Answer from Conan’s Key Makeup Artist Deborah Paulmann: [...]]]>

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In Praise of the On-Off Relationship

2011-07-11T07:31:00.001-07:00

In Praise of the On-Off Relationship By Kiri Blakeley, Guest Blogger and Courtesy of Forbes.com Justin Timberlake and his girlfriend of four years, the beautiful actress Jessica Biel, were reportedly seen noshing on pork tacos in Toronto over the weekend. Ah, young love… Wait a gosh darn second! Didn’t these two break up, like, four [...]]]>

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100 Questions to ask Your Date

2011-02-21T08:36:00.000-08:00

Wanting to get to know your date better? Running out of things to talk to your sweetie about? First date jitters and do not know what to speak about? Well, listed here are 100 questions that can break the ice and get a conversation going. The most important thing would be to have fun! You could be surprised at what you discover the other person. Don’t force anyone to answer a question it normally won't wish to and don’t pry deeper if they will not talk about a specific subject.

1. That which was your better job?
2. What were your worst jobs?
3. Let me know every one of the places you worked
4. Tell me about your best friend
5. Let me know about your family
6. Figure out about your relatives
7. That which was your first car?
8. Favorite superstar?
9. Favorite entertainer?
10. Favorite song?
11. What were your life changing moments?
12. First girlfriend/boyfriend?
13. First kiss?
14. What is the dumbest thing you've ever done?
15. Perhaps you have been arrested?
16. Political affiliation?
17. Have you voted for somebody you wished you hadn’t?
18. Maybe you have used drugs?
19. Do you want to shop?
20. Easiest way to relax?
21. Favorite thing to do alone?
22. Ever had single night stand?
23. Do you cut costs?
24. What hobbies to you spend money on?
25. In the event you found a $100 how would you react?
26. Are you wanting children/more children?
27. Have you been a good parent?
28. Do not know good parent?
29. Have you been romantic?
30. Ever loose a pet?
31. Cat or dog?
32. Pets maturing?
33. Sleep in the nude?
34. Favorite midnight snack?
35. Would you exercise?
36. Did you ever see your parents having sex?
37. Peanut butter and what?
38. What's one food you'll never stop trying?
39. What is a food you can live without?
40. Favorite drink?
41. Perfect day?
42. The number of cds you own?
43. The amount of dvds you own?
44. Favorite thing to spend money on?
45. Is there a weirdest thing about yourself?
46. What's on your own bedside table?
47. Are you cheap or thrifty?
48. Have you been deeply in love with 2 people simultaneously?
49. Grades in high school?
50. Favorite teacher?
51. Relatives in jail?
52. Toppings on pizza?
53. Black or white?
54. Glass half full or half empty?
55. Have you been to a food shelf?
56. Ever milked a cow?
57. Ever tipped a cow?
58. Bath or shower?
59. Mountains or even the beach?
60. Plane, train or automobile?
61. Favorite all time movie?
62. Worse movie you've ever seen?
63. Best concert you might have been to?
64. Beer, wine or coffee?
65. Best vacation?
66. Should you could retire tomorrow how would you react?
67. Worse vacation?
68. Three places you would like to visit?
69. Worse boss?
70. If you could do just about anything an amount it's?
71. Super powers you want?
72. Ever had a massage?
73. Ideal romantic dinner?
74. Dumbest purchase you ever made?
75. Where did you will find money when you were flat broke?
76. Ever sold blood?
77. What sporting event/concert/entertainment would you buy tickets to no matter price?
78. Ever hit a jackpot on a slot machine?
79. Ever won the lottery?
80. What would you do with your lottery winnings?
81. Have you been a neat freak?
82. Can’t stand being around people who_________?
83. Crowds or small groups?
84. How old do you want to live to?
85. Loose your sight or hearing?
86. Ever endured a crush on the member of the sex?
87. Pet peeves?
88. Most annoying habit?
89. Sexiest elements of a part of the opposite sex?
90. Major turn offs?
91. Tattoos?
92.Parents
93. Piercings?
94. Plastic surgery--would you/have you?
95. Computer geek?
96. Trekee?
97. Play a guitar?
98. Experienced a band?
99. Most embarrassing moment?
100. Nude beach good or bad

Even after these 100 questions you still feel you do not know what to talk to your date, then you may forget any kind of dating suceess.

Adult Online Dating - Understanding the Pros and Pitfalls

2011-02-16T17:37:00.000-08:00

Adult online dating services really are a area of interest in online dating sites, offering a number of similar features for instance full searching capabilities and a large number of subscribers. Completely anonymous and secure, adult online online dating services feature erotic personals, to view sexy photos of folks. Simply register and immediately contact any member via instant messaging, plus searching or apply filters that allow you to limit the members for your unique needs and desires. Many adult online online dating services allow all members to include an account towards the site, chat, send messages, and browse through their huge database of profiles free of charge. Guests may enter the site and browse around, but in order to post a list or use all of the site features you have to register like a member.

The benefits of adult online dating sites involve:
The ability on the cheap sexually experienced or shy personalities expressing and explore their sexual nature.
It is a safe secure environment to train safe, virtual sex.
The power to understand the cybersex partner due to the anonymous nature of the web and adult chatrooms.

What Makes WomenGo After Certain Men?

Just like adult internet dating has its own set of advantages, there can be drawbacks to overindulgence. The risks of adult dating services online, particularly regarding cybersex, involve:

Not having the person you are dealing with - the web cannot screen age or sex of participants, potentially causing ethical concerns.
People may take online adult online dating services too seriously and personally. Reports have been noted on cybersex addiction.
Internet adult dating may potentially ruin your physical romantic endeavors as a result of insufficient anonymity within the physical space.
It is unhealthy to have only online relationships since this will put you off entering real physical relationships.

If and when you you will need to utilize this medium, weigh the benefits and drawbacks of adult online dating sites to ensure that both you and fellow members provide an enjoyable and positive experience.

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Top Dating Advice For Online Dating

2011-02-09T08:57:00.001-08:00

Theoretically, online dating is the ideal way to meet your 'perfect match', yet a surprisingly small percentage of members are in fact successful to find the things they seek online. You will find, however, some simple guidelines, which if implemented, will greatly increase your odds of success in the online dating sites arena.

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2011-02-08T18:06:00.001-08:00

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2011-01-30T06:00:00.000-08:00

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2011-01-16T06:56:00.001-08:00

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2011-01-15T20:51:00.001-08:00

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2011-01-11T06:12:00.001-08:00

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2011-01-09T00:42:00.001-08:00

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So in the final analysis on the dating journey we meet someone. We like the looks of someone and so they like the look of us, we laugh and chat together, we build an emotional link through conversation and knowledge and we are attracted to each other on multiple levels. We discover we now have a shared experience through our backgrounds and that we share similar lifestyle and may even be residing in identical neighborhoods. Match manufactured in heaven? Possibly and possibly not. Love is not just about matching, to expect instant chemistry, something enigmatic and mysterious, not quantifiable. Dating tips are just that. Tips. That can help in an extremely dating relationships.

New Dating Advice Website

2009-06-30T18:38:00.000-07:00

I have been away from Daily dating Tips for a while but I had been busy doing some very interesting things. I have been quietly working on a new dating advice website. Why another dating website? Well the reasons are many. While researching the subject, I came across hundreds and thousands of websites and blogs which dishes out nothing more than porn in disguise. I felt the need for a dating site which could give good insights into a sensitive subject like dating. There is need for answers to many questions when you encounter when you are planning to meet your sweetheart. Quality was one missing element from most of the sites. Of course there are many good quality sites, but most fail to understand the need.

So Dating Advice is a dating resource center where you can just ask a question and browse dozens of articles which answer your question. I also plan to make it a single point resource center to address all your dating needs - except of course short acting the online dating place.

I have also been putting together a classic on dating 'The Art Of Dating' one of the few books that is totally research backed and addresses the fundamental issues of dating. My view is no book has been written since which addresses the very core issues of dating. In fact this book is not only about dating, but reading this book could give even the parents the right understanding about dating issues faced by them with their teen aged children.

Ok friends so keep the feedback coming and watch out for some more interesting tips daily.

How To Create Your Online Dating Profile

2009-05-15T18:29:00.000-07:00

For many people, the hardest part of starting to date online is figuring out what to put in their profile. All dating sites offer their members a profile page, where each member can write about his or herself, upload a photo (or several) etc. What you write about yourself in the profile is extremely important: second only to the picture in terms of making other members aware of who you are and making them want to contact you.

Many people are keen to start searching for and contacting people as soon as they join a site. As a result, they either leave their profile blank, or write something quickly before beginning their search. This is OK if you’re just having a look around, but if you are serious about finding love online, you should take some time and make sure your profile is a good reflection of who you are. After all, it’s what makes you stand out from the rest of the people on the site.

Here are a few points to keep in mind:

Not too long, not too short

Try to write a profile that is detailed enough to tell people about you, but short enough to leave people wanting more. Writing a full length essay is a waste of time as most people wouldn’t bother reading it all. If someone did read it through and contacted you, you probably wouldn’t have anything left to talk about!

Be yourself

It’s easy to lie when writing a profile, but more difficult to follow through once you meet someone. If your profile says you’re 6’4” when you’re really 5’11”, your cover will be blown as soon as you turn up for your date. Also, starting a relationship with a lie is a sure way to get off to a bad start.

Unfortunately, even people who are honest and well-meaning sometimes lie unintentionally in their profile, by trying to write it in a way that they think would make them more attractive to other people. If you want to attract a likeminded person, you have to be honest about who you are, your hobbies and interests etc.

Don’t be too demanding

Many people use their profiles to list the qualities they would like their ideal match to have. There is nothing wrong with that, but make sure you balance this with information about yourself. You don’t want to come across as writing a ransom note.

Too much information

Avoid mentioning past disappointments and bad break-ups in your profile; this is not what the space is for. Think: do you really want this to be the first thing people see when they look you up? Don’t let yourself be defined by negative aspects of your personality and bad experiences of the past.

Make it funny

Using humour is a good way to liven up a profile and give people a glimpse into your personality. Some of the most successful profiles are the ones that simply make people laugh. Including a joke you find funny is good, as long as you make sure you write something about yourself in the profile as well.

Be original

Anyone can write “I have a good sense of humour”, but not anyone could make you laugh. When writing about yourself, don’t just use a list of adjectives. Try to go deeper and give people examples of what you actually mean. A good way of doing this is starting off with a list of adjectives and then using each one as a starting point for a few lines of text.

Upload a picture

Even the least shallow people want to know who they’re talking to. Not having a photo on your profile will make many people ignore you completely. Some people even specify in their search that they only want to speak to people whose picture appears on the site. Don’t worry about your looks. Different people have different tastes and not everyone expects to meet a movie star or a supermodel online. A clear headshot of you smiling is all it takes to seriously increase the amount of responses you get.

Be consistent

Make sure your profile, your screen name and your picture all match the impression you want to give. If you are a woman looking for a serious relationship, calling yourself “SexKitten” and uploading a semi-nude picture of yourself, is not likely to attract the kind of man you’re looking for. A man looking for a wife, should probably not use a username that hints about how good he is in bed.

Remember: your profile is the first (and often last) impression you will make to potential online matches. Make it count.

4 Mistakes That May Kill Your Online Dating Success

2009-04-21T09:56:00.000-07:00

If you are into internet dating and searching for the lady of your dreams, you can do a lot of things right. But most often than not you may also end up doing lot of things that are wrong.

Your search for the soul mate may come to a sad end even before the relationship gets going.

Extreme Aggressiveness

Being extremely aggressive online while dating and pushing hard for a face to face may send out the wrong message to your lady love. If ytou are over aggrssive and demanding you will be guaranteesing yourself a dating failure. In the real world being aggrssive and pushy and demanding perfection may make you a macho man but in the online dating world these very qualities may be construed as taking things for granted and kill your chances of dating success.

Dating is not a business deal where you can push too hard. Relationships are brittle like glass and break up if you come across too confidant and aggressive. Keep the relationship going at a slow and steady pace till you win her confidence and your lady love is ready for a face to face to face encounter. Patience is the key.

Demanding Perfection

We are all imperfect and have flaws in one way or another. If you expect your women to be picture perfect you are in for disappointment. You have to look for a strong character but make allowances for some weaknesses physical or otherwise. Remember you are yourself not perfect and have your own weaknesses. Decide what you can live with and what you can compromise for qualities that are more important from your lady in a dating relationship. This is equally true for online as well as offline dating relationships.

Avoid Being Sleazy

Online dating sometimes brings out the worst as you are not face to face with someone and you may try out the wildest and sleaziest thing online as many people feel that it may not really matter as you may never meet the person. Don't try to live your wacky dreams online with the fair sex.

Be Honest

Avoid white lies and painting a falser picture about yourself. Be honest if want to succeed in online dating. You may of course present yourself in a interesting manner but lies are another thing altogether. If you are making making $50000 a year but pretend as if you are a millionaire, you have set yourself up for failure. The truth will be knwon eventually and your date may simply break off with disappointment.

Decide what you want out of your dating. If you are just looking for a fling, you should be looking elsewhere and not at a good online dating site. If you are interested in a serious relationship then you better avoid these 4 deadly dating mistakes

How Not To Write An Online Dating Service Profile

2009-03-26T18:30:00.000-07:00

Scanning through thousands of profiles of men and women searching for a partner through online dating services, it is laughable to see so many poorly written introductions...

Of those online dating service profiles, no more than a dozen captured my attention enough to make the first move. I’m sure that you wish to get lots of reactions to your online dating service advertisement, otherwise why would you bother joining a site, and paying a fee to meet new people?

If that is the case, then make sure you avoid the 3 of the biggest mistakes at all costs:

1. "I May Be the one you’re Seeking For"

This may be the case. However, by employing this combination of words anywhere for your online dating service profile, you aren’t telling me, or your potential suitor, anything new...

What this line does say to someone checking you out is that the online dating service profiler didn’t do a lot of thinking about how they wanted to present themselves. Tell people what gets your eyes twinkling or even what REALLY gets you up in the morning - and don’t say it’s your alarm clock, either. Now is the time to let your passions really shine through...

2. "I’m the one Your Mother Warned You About"

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To avoid this, come up with something a bit more unique and original. But what if you aren’t sure how to do this? Well, it’s not hard to take a look at your competition in the online dating service field, so why not do a quick search and see what everyone else is doing?

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3. Glaring Spelling or even Grammatical Mistakes

This tip might seem childish, or even trite – but its critically important. While chatting with someone online, you may make a few spelling mistakes that a potential suitor will find annoying. However until you get to that stage with someone, noone should know that you’ve got dyslexia, or just can’t spell worth beans...

It shows a lot to a potential suitor while they peruse the online dating services that someone has taken the time to spell check their document. Hell, get a friend to proof read it for you if want just in case you’ve missed something important...

However if you can't take the time to write something legible, virtually all people perusing the online dating service websites will assume you won’t have time to bother doing other, even more important tasks. And when you only have two or three of seconds to make that first impression before someone clicks on another person – each and every detail counts...

Playing It Safe in Online Dating

2009-03-08T04:01:00.000-07:00

Online dating is not a perfect world. Internet being a borderless world, it is very difficult to segregate the good from the bad. It is very difficult to decide whom to avoid and whom to meet up with, date or even continue an online relationship. The possibility of future stalkers and psychotics shouldn't deter you from online dating if follow some safe online dating practices.

So how do you play safe in Online Dating?

Although the answer to this question may not guarantee 100 % protection from the dregs of the society the safe online dating tips here would help make your experience much better and decrease the possibility of such people.

Do Not Give Out Your Real Identity Too Soon

Ideally it’s nice to start things with whomsoever it is you are dating online with openness and honesty, its only the beginning and you may hold out all the personal details till you are sure of whom and where you are headed. A good screen name is the best answer to hold back your personal details. Get to know your mate before revealing your address and real name etc.

Do Not Give Out Anything inside Your Wallet

Okay, let’s review – what’s usually inside your wallet? Driver’s license, credit cards, money, other identification papers and so on. Now, here’s the thing. I’ve already advised you against giving out your real identity, right? Well, here are more restrictions.

Refrain from giving out details of your credit card, the address of your workplace and your home as well as your phone number because who knows if they’ll use these details for unwanted purposes?

No matter what they say, no matter how reasonable their explanations are, it’s ALWAYS better to be safe than sorry.

Do Not Be Rude

Since online dating doesn’t require people to see each other eye to eye, many tend to be more aggressive and outgoing than they really are, which is good, because opening up would let people know you better. There are, however, people who also tend to be ruder than they usually are when online dating on the simple premise that they don’t have to be careful of what they say since they wouldn’t see the person they’re talking to anyway.

Wrong way of thinking! In online dating, that’s how the fights start and these could always escalate to more violent forms of disagreement. Online dating doesn’t give any of us an excuse to be rude so when you meet someone you dislike, simply excuse yourself and log off.

3 Powerful Techniques To Dating Success

2009-03-05T17:57:00.000-08:00

Let me give you 3 ultra powerful secrets to dating success. Now these may seem to be mundane and an every day affair. But if you pay attention to these three powerful techniques you will have a more successful and satisfying dating experience with the person you desperately wish to be with.

1. Get a female friend or sister to help you pick your clothes.

If you don't know what to wear, get someone who does know! Ask a female friend or acquaintance to go shopping with you. She's sure to be flattered, and if you reward her with a gift certificate or DVD, she'll be all the more motivated to help you out.

2. Check out the latest styles.

Go to the bar or club and see what others are wearing. Observe what the guys who do well with women wear. Look in magazines and catalogues and see what is in style.

3. Wear what conforms to your identity.

If you're the hardworking, businessman type, wear formal clothes that accent your career. If you're the snowboarder/skater type, wear grungy clothes that accent your loose, laid-back persona. And if you're really into music, don't be afraid to express yourself with the types of clothes that rock stars and musicians like to wear! You can't force a style upon yourself; clothes are a form of marketing, so market yourself like you would a product, in the way that best shows what you're all about.

These three techniques may be used by ladies too. Just substitute a male in all above and follow the steps.

First impressions are the best impressions for dating success. If you neglect to dress right, you may as well kiss good bye to any success you may have with your girl or man.

Why Online Dating?

2009-03-04T08:50:00.000-08:00

The secret of finding the right girl or guy to date has never been a secret, though it seems tough sometimes. The real reason is that you are too shy or hesitant to ask and therefore you don't get your date from someone whome you desperately want to ask out. Finding your right half consumes lots and lots of time and money. Welcome to the fantastic world of online dating.

You no longer have to search someone special and wait for introductions. You don't have to be afraid of rejections when you approach someone you feel special about. You can forget your fears. Thats online dating for you. Just log on to an online dating site and you are ready to find your better half. It is reverse kind of phenomenon, in which a person understands one’s aspirations and expectations via internet and finally decides to meet in person.

There are many benefits of an online dating concept. Anonymity when you first start a dating online is the first and foremost benefit. You may hide your personal information including contacts, address, surnames till you feel confidant. This provides you a freedom to know the person better without any fear of being taken advantage of. You may choose to be anonymous til you trust a particular person.

A good dating site offers security which makes online dating ideal ly suited for ladies. No more you need to fear unwanted person to disturb you and interrupt your search for a right match. In case someone gets on to you, you may block him and continue with your search. Just logging onto a right dating site can get you access to millions of prospects to go through.

Just a few tips regarding your online dating venture:

Don’t be half hearted and get ready for some risk taking. Not all ventures go 100% successful, hence, it is important to prepare yourself for some let downs and disappointments. Be sure what you want and get a thorough research work done before actual dating.

Spoil yourself. Treat yourself with good new clothes and get some shopping stuff that relaxes you and provide better confidence then ever.

Decide in advance the reasons you are dating for. Be sure, what you want from your partner and does the search satisfy your dating goal. Be sure if you are seeking for nice companionship or you are seeking for a life partner or so on.

Boost up your confidence before going for any sorts of date. Attending social functions and getting along with your friends would surely enhance a positive aura around you.

Decide the meeting place in advance. Be sure, the place to be public enough. Although night clubs prove to be a bad idea for meeting for first time. Obviously you would not like to scream into ears to get your views conveyed to your partner. Choose a place like a coffee shop that proves to be ideal to talk to.

Most importantly, enjoyment is the key for dating. After all this is the reason you are dating for. Make your dating fun but be sure to be safe.

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