Five First Date Questions To Ask

Five First DateQuestions To Ask You’ve ordered dinner and wish the waiter would bringa side order of good conversation because an awkward silence has settledover the table. You’ve already meandered through common first-date banter (Do youhave siblings? Where do you like to hang out?) and now have hit a slump. Whatyou need is to shake the conversation up with some unique questions instead of the regularlackluster ones that get served on first dates. This way you’ll keep her intriguedwhile you get your hands on important information about her. Keep theconversation light but meaningful, and let it flow in a natural way. Often, a questionwill branch out into others, so here are five first date questions to have up yoursleeve.Are you going to try the snails with me?You’re both perusing the menu when she settles on a pasta dish. Sneakily, you askher if she’d be keen to try something different instead. This is more than justwanting her to enjoy what is, in your opinion, a delicacy; you’re being introducedto her sense of openness. Is she willing to try new things or does she insist that snailslook disgusting? Of course, if she has an allergy to the food you’re suggesting,that’s a totally different situation. Generally, though, asking her to try somethingnew with you will show you how she deals with it and if she’s flexible. Not tomention that if she’s an experimental gal it could pay off at a later stage.What would you do right now if you had a million bucks?You can ask her about her hobbies, or you could throw her this question and see how shecatches it. What she would do if she landed in big money overnight is probably somethingshe has let her imagination toy with before (as have most of us), so it will give you aglimpse into her interests and priorities, but also spontaneity levels. The benefit ofthis first date question is that it comes across as fun, thusputting her at ease while giving you some insight into what she’s all about.What’s the scariest thing you’ve ever done?Just how risky is this hot tamale? This subject not only makes for some interestinganecdotes, but it helps you gauge her adventurous side and what risk levels she iscomfortable with. Look into the future: If you start dating and invite her to go bungee jumping or mountainclimbing, will you be sharing that adrenaline or will she be sitting on the sidelinesbored? Explore her sense of adventure and see if your fun thresholds are on the samepage. Our five first date questions to ask continues after the jump...

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