No matter what age you are, no matter what stage in life you’re at, the moment youfeel that you like a woman, you start terrorizing your friends with this question:“Does she likeme?” You rally all of them. You might go out in a group or call friends upindividually and ask each of them, “Can you let me know what you think -- does shelike me?” And you'll start going over some of the things she's done. You’restarving for theiropinions. Here's the issue -- the issue we all forget: The minute you walkaround wondering, “Does she like me?” you’re basically giving your poweraway to her, without even realizing it. Then, the next time you see her when you go out on a date, you'renot really yourself because you're so caught up with wondering if she likes you andwanting her to like you that you hold back who you really are. And in dating, isn't thatthe whole point? In order to get the ending right -- to finally find thatgreat woman you could spend eternity with, or at least happily ever after for two years --you need to find someone who likes you (and is dating you) for who you are instead ofliking you for who they think you are. You need to stop worrying about if shelikes you, and you need to flip the switch and the power. You need to think: Do youlike her? Is she somebody you can hang with? Is she somebody you can envision going onvacation with? Is she somebody you'd like to wake up with in the morning? Is she sexuallycompatible with you? Do you like the way she moves? Do you like the way she talks? Do youlike the way she takes care of herself? And most important, are you able to be 100 percentauthentic in front of her? Are you being yourself, or are you just being a version ofyourself in order to get her to like you? The minute I stopped worryingwhether a girl liked me and started being myself in every situation, I had an endlesssupply of women liking me. The funny thing is, I didn't like many of them. I found theywere actually spending time trying to get me to like them instead of just beingthemselves. So I've been where you are, and I've seen both sides of it. Andlet me tell you, if you flip the switch and start to do the things I advise above, you'renever going to call another friend to ask whether the girl you like likes you back. You'renever going to worry about whether she likes you. You're going to have complete control,complete power -- and you're going to attract the most incredible women. The eternalquestion “Does she like me?” won’t be a question anymore.
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